I don’t even know where to begin. You seem to translate all longing for warmth and closeness into ‘longing for validation’. This is nonsense. I get validated a lot for the paid work that I do. But it’s simply not the same.Then: if there’s one problem I have, it is issues with group identity. I don’t feel at home in any political party, any subculture. I like people around me, but not with all the same code of thinking or conduct. When I still celebrated my birthday with big parties, no one knew each other, because I knew them all from different occasions. Asking for similar experiences as mine is not the same as wanting to form a group identity with those people.And I have taken lots of action. Lately I’ve been phoning all kinds of organisations looking for volunteers, but they’re simply not active at the moment because of the lockdown measures, though they were interested in me alright. You randomly accuse me of things you know literally nothing about.And the idea I ‘want to be loved by feminists’ is plucked out of thin air, nowhere I state something that comes near.If there is anything I need less than advice, it’s this conceited kind of amateur psychology.
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In particular: the aspects about searching for a group identity to meet the need of belongingness.But I think you put too much weight on the draw of such a group as “single men” or even “incels.” Typically, these types of groups are a last resort, and the people within them are still trying to get out. But it fails for — unfortunately — shallow social reasons, and so they go back to the group and heal by commiserating. With enough healing, they’ll try again.Of course they are. So are political activists, sexual activists, and any of the other ones that young men are instinctively clinging to.Not that it matters, the Mods considered it some kind of personal attack. If thats how one sees comments like that then we are too far gone in my opinion. Really trying my best to come into this sub with good intentions and effort, but I can already see it leaning towards the same issues the MRA has. Will see how it goes in the next few weeks
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